>>"They think the land of the free is a nursing home, where someone else will take care of their every life need."<<
The trouble is that the "Land Of The Free" (choke...gag) does kiss the rear-end of all Foreigners, of course, also using them in the process. A win/win situation for both parties.
It appears that if you are born here, you are screwed.
Time to strive to become EVEN MORE independant of proxy-like behaviour.
Things are only going to get even more challenging.