Thank you for such a wonderful response! I really needed it.
Since I wrote that I've told my mother, and she's not sure if it's true because I don't really remember much. She doesn't believe in kinesiology. She and my sister says that there's no reason to tell anyone, so let's just keep it quiet. I told them 'whatever'. I didn't tell them my intentions of contacting his daughter-in-law, and I'm not gonna tell them. I'm not gonna have it on my conscience that I let it happen to someone else. I will be calling her soon, please pray for me to do this.