Thanks for posting again, very interesting - I had no answers for you.
We are all imperfect beings and that you strive to leave your attachment to difficult/unproductive emotions that makes you a 'bette' person. But, being human, I believe we must try to feel all that we can in order to understand our place in our own mind and in the world around us.
I wish you good luck, that you know you can be these things is far more than most people ever understand about themselves.