forgiveness sounds like a "mission" but sometimes it is so difficult to do that a gift such as a lifetime of forgiveness may (or may not ) take great strength.
It appears to me that we are the abusers in one life and the abused in the next, in other words same players different parts. The more power used in defending or subjugating the more karma, and the more likely we are to meet again. I really liked power for a while there but I'm over it, it takes too much energy.
That feels right to me...I know all of the people that have charge in my life for ever and have forever.The ovasoul has incarnated us many times in the same batch