Re: Wife does not like sex, and our marriage is in jeapordy.

I am so very sorry that you two have so many issues.

Being apart and trying to figure out how to make things work is much more challenging.

Does she want to find answers? If both of you are at a loss, then is therapy possible?

Otherwise, you may have to step back and analyze you relationship. It is very difficult to venture a guess as to what might work without knowing how the two of you relate.

When two people stay together, it is possible to assume that both have a desire to work things out. You may want to find out if she wishes to work on the marriage. If the answer is "yes" then formulate a plan, find out what her requierements are, and consider them. Also, try to figure out what your wishes are.

If you are separated, the issue is not sex only, there are other stepping stones that must be crossed before getting to the point of solving this issue.

The reasons for the separation, the level of commitment, common goals, expectations, maturity level - are all converging issues in this process.

Hopefully, you two can discuss things and come up with a plan that will work to repair your marriage.

I wish you all the best and hope that your bride can take some time to think things out on her own.

MadArt (ist)