Re: this happened

I agree and disagree.
Disagree that your wife should be a classic barbie stay at home mom. She can do what she wants, shes a big girl.
Agree that she should've been helping out with some things around the house while your working. Being lazy should be a medically recognized disease.

Not all women suck, theres a good percentage of 'em there are just out for your blood(hey, it's the same percentage with guys!)
Start over with someone better, and give the next person you get close to the choice to help around the house.

Best of luck man.