It may be "ALL" abour how one Perceives the Reply to be !
For the one who asks the Question, this is stating that the Person may not understand the Correct answer !
So, "WHY" do so many people get upset when they may not like the answer, or the way it is Perceived to be Delievered ?
Either a person Looks at Life to find the Positive in "everything" and thus may learn to become Healthy and Happy, or a person may choose to Look at Life from a "Negative" view point and stay Un-Healthy and Un-happy !