I am not sure what Molly said. However, the Internet is not always a trustworthy place. It breeds a lot of skepticism in people. I do NOT send ANYONE money on the Internet unless I absolutely know the person. Perhaps you should take a little breather or some time off for an extended time, let things simmer down. I think the OP forum is positive. When you get beat down by life, sometimes that can make one hypersensitive. Take care.