I read the post where one described how NPDs will be cool as cucumbers while the spouse looks like they've lost their minds.
Just devastates me.
I remember how ....it was in the beginning. And I think something is being overlooked here. The key words in the post were "Run. Take your children."
INCAPACITATE. If one were to look it up in the Funk&Wagnall it means YA CAN'T GO ANYWHERE. (I knew even way back then that I was truly in horrendous trouble and would never be able to support myself again if it kept up. Little did I know what was to come. Just the tip of the iceberg.)
Then I am reminded of what the Chinese do to their women. Used to do. Break the bones .... her toes first. Then shove the toes under the foot. Make her walk the floor of the room where she is held virtually like a captive. Break the rest of the bones. Walk the floor until you are totally deformed. She is then deemed beautiful when her feet are only 3 1/2 inches long.
And she now won't be able to go anywhere. Run. Take your children.