I think that I have had 2 outbreaks in the last 2 months. I am in a combat zone and very stressed daily and only getting about 3 hours of sleep a day. I have never had an outbreak but about 9 years ago I thought I had caught something from a partner and all the STD tests came back negative. I know I dont have HIV because we get tested regularly for it in the military. I have been married for going on 17 years and had sex with someone back then which my wife has since found out about. She was also tested and came back negative. I am now very stressed that if it is herpes she will think I have done it again.