I just relised that it sounds like I am trying to hurt him with the zapper. So that noone thinks I am out to hurt my husband I better clarify...
First it was his idea to use the zapper while he slept when he forgets. Second the zapper handles are placed at the hips and held in place by the elastic. I go up and get them later on but he wakes up so much while he is asleep he has always taken it off.
I really think that to win over the significant others in our lives we have to make it as easy as possible for them to do the healthy things. At least till they are convinced it works.