Most of us dream of the day when we won't have any more problems ... when everything in our lives are resolved ... and our lives are "complete". But it is very unlikely that this will happen, because problems are an important and valuable part of our lives. Instead of trying to eliminate them, we should strive to understand exactly what they are.
We are a part of a universe that is forever giving us definite messages and signals ... often in the form of problems. There are no accidents or coincidences ... problems can happen to us at any given point in our life. Such difficulties are really signposts waiting to be read.
Ask yourself ... "What is this problem that I'm experiencing telling me about myself? What is it telling me about my thoughts ... beliefs? ... actions? ... choices? ... lifestyle? What is this problem trying to tell me? Look closely, and see if you can find the real cause. If you always feel sorry for yourself or helpless when a problem comes your way, you'll miss the important messages it brings you.