To many fights

Does anyone have the problem that I have in that their other half thinks they are crazy going on these sights to get help as thinks they are for nut jobs? I have been unwell for quite a while with CFS, when I look to self help my boyf thinks I am wasting my time and money. I cannot tell him my problems or my ideas as he says ' what is it this week?'. He totally lacks empathy and yet I am required to tickle him before bed time to get him to sleep, give him foot massages regularly as he gets tired feet. He has a very successful job that pays extremely well, yet he will not help me out with any costs from the docs i have seen. It just seems I am in a relationship with a very demanding man that would rather spend 5000 dollars on a bed than help me out. I keep thinking that when I get well I will dump him and he'll be sorry he didn't help me out. I think this is just because I am upset at his small mindedness.I so want to get well and get my career going so I can prove that I am not just a moaning girlfriend but someone who did actually have chronic health problems. I get the impression there are alot of partners who go against all this natural healing.