I accidently clicked the "Alert..Bad Message" on your post and I had no idea what your title was, so I just made up "great post" because it is. I am sorry.
Regarding Shelley, I am sending her e-mails daily begging her to PLEASE come back to curezone. A few moderators treated her shamelessly and after she could take no more, she left. It was a dark day for curezone.