Hi Southern Belle, I completley agree with you, I've noticed that argumentative spirit too, it's wierd. It's a shame to have lost such a good forum just because people want to use the site as a place of heated disagreement. You're right, this is NOT a debate forum, this is a wonderful site set up to help people! By the way Southern Belle, thank you for all the advice you've given me!!!! (it has helped:) Sincerely, Laura