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Hi,

You received wonderful and insightful answers to your question, but one sentence in your post bothers me:

But our relationship was always very rocky.

So, I am to assume your relationship is still rocky? If so, his wandering fingers on the keyboard may be some type of fantasy he has with his former love?

Would it be possible for the two of you to sit down and have a heart to heart talk? Getting professional help would be the ideal solution, but most men are as hard headed as mules and refuse to admit problems. So, that is why I am suggesting sitting down and talking.....maybe working through your problems.......or maybe finding out things you may or may not want to know. Regardless, if you decide to open up a discussion, be prepared for whatever may or may not happen.

I have just had you on my mind for several days now and I truly want you to be happy.

Paulette