When We Go We Still are alive in the live ones

All my life I really did not know for sure what was going to happen at death. Lately I have learned that everyone who has a child will be living in the child after death by information on genetic strands controllling, and living with the live person. Even a family tree 10,000 years old can have a primary person in your brain to control everyone else. People on the genetic strands of the past of common interests I believe are more active in the live person, others are more dormant doing things of their past life in the minds of the live person. When threats to the live person arrive all are fighting to help the live one live.