Yeah you're right. Having to carry the baby maybe 8 more months would totally ruin your life...(sounds like a spoiled teenager).
Yeah, how horrible the mother would feel to give the child away and let it live. Just knowing you didn't end it's life probably would eat you up inside. I can't imagine how I would feel if I gave my baby up for adoption. If it went to school, learned things, maybe even got married and had it's own kids. That is so painful to think of. I would much rather live in the peace of knowing I ended it's life. Wondering if it had pain during the cutting and sucking wouldn't bother me at all. This makes so much sense! What a selfless person!