Re: "Miscarriages are out of my hands"?

Ok, it seems I have to spell everything out for you. I'm talking about if I had a miscarriage it would be out of my hands. In other words, I couldn't stop it. I didn't start it and I couldn't stop it if it happened. I also happen to know that my cousin had a miscarriage and she was deeply depressed and she had NOTHING to do with it. She mourned the loss of her baby. We all felt bad for her. If I had an abortion it would be MY FAULT. Get it? That is in my hands. None of us thought, oh it was just a miscarriage, get over it. God forbid if you all think like that. I wonder what you would do if your friend was depressed over a miscarriage. Tell her, oh just chill. It was only a fetus. I'd be interested to see how she would act and how much longer you would be friends.