I can't stand "pro" life. The opposite from that would be "pro" death. It should be the right-to-lifer's if anything. Someone made a really bad marketing decision.
Pro-choice is the perfect brand. None of us are "pro"abortion, I know that. If I had a girlfriend come to me with a surprise pregnancy, the first thing I would discuss is the possibility of having a baby, not the possibility of terminating the pregnancy. And only if that conversation was exhausted would I ever broach the subject of an abortion.
But thank goodness, should I have a girlfriend in need, she would know that she can depend on me for being non-judgmental, no matter the outcome.