yes you are exactly right...absolutely... i originally came here to share my experience since i have actually had an abortion many years ago... to give an insight to what it is like ...and by the way this is my real name....hehe and then i found out it is nothing but ridicule... well i am afraid to share my story now... too bad there isnt a support forum.. i dont think this is the right place for real life experiences... the only reason i come to this site is too share my experiences and learn and help others