NEED HELP FOR 90 YR. OLD WITH GALL STONES

Last week end my 90 yr. old mother was rushed into the hospital because of great pain in the abdomen, back, hips. There had been two prior emergency visits, with no answers. This time they did ultrasound etc. and found gall stones and kidney stones. I used to think her pain was due to candida and food sensitivities , which she also has. Now I wonder if she did not have gall bladder attacks all along.
Next week we have an appointment with a surgeon. I suspect he will suggest surgery. My mother has a heart condition, recently she has also fallen a lot and is rather weak.
I am in a real dilemma. I have done 9 Liver Flushes myself and am quite comfortable doing them. But I will have her doctors and our family against me if I suggest flushes to her, and God forbid she ends up with another emergency situation because of what I have recommended, AGAINST
everyone else’s suggestions. (Because of my recommendations she has recently received over 30 intravenous chelation and hydrogen peroxide and vitamin/ mineral treatments, AND unfortunately has been getting weaker and weaker. Her family doctor barely looks at me now, and our family is becoming more critical )
I have read somewhere that there are I think some Chinese herbs that flush out stones. Has anyone here done that successfully? And know the name of the herbs? I only know of herbs that supposedly break down stones, then they still need to be flushed out. I have used Julia Chang’s Gold Coin grass tincture and found it does break up cholesterol stones, but what about calcified gall stones? I talked to Julia, she did not want to be pinned down on this.
I am trying to save my mother the surgery, but on the other hand don’t have the nerve to have her go through months and months of flushes AND gall bladder attacks.
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