i liked that last paragraph. i see that all the time around me. thats why i dont even talk to my family much anymore. all they tell me when i see them is that i need help, they actually acuse me of be an alcoholic. i do drink to much some times but to make accusations about it doesnt help none. its a sin to feel sorry for another person. and all they say when i talk to them, have you been doing anything else, have you been getting any help. just sticks in my craw. i cant trust my family to offer helpfull advise when you have a problem. they cant be trusted on that one. LOLOLOL. sad really, there incapable of offering good advise.