Re: is this reality?

Hi, LostMind. No one can really tell you what to do, because I have learned from personal experience that if I want to do something or be with someone, like I was in a bad relationship before, I ignored what my friends said, because "I" wasn't ready to let go of what I had grown comfortable with. Listen to your heart. Listen to your instincts. Does his wife know about you? Is she ok with that? What is he telling her? Maybe the two of you need to meet and compare notes. He doesn't need to know. If there's nothing going on with her, then he won't mind you two getting to be friends. If he cares, then he may have something to hide. He could lose you both. Of course he's enjoyed cake and ice cream. If you have him and you lose yourself, is it really worth it?