Re: Fiance wants to go racing

Dear Scared 14, Take a breath and know that you are loved and loveable. You have had a great loss right now and you are wondering if your relationship can past the test of this breakdown. Your feels like he is being honest and honoring his own feelings. This is good. He is expressing what he needs to regain and build trust. YOu are lucky to be part of a large family of helpers here in the CureZone. You are not alone. Feel your feelings, and maybe if you are ready start to write. If feels like you need to look at the original distancing that caused you to look elsewhere. What were those feelings? That is something to write about. Your Beloved needs to express as well why he was distancing. Take a look at some of my poems on this site. They are words Men need to know and women want to hear.

Be well,

Your Enchanted Gardener

http://www.lesliegoldman.com/Worlds_Greatest_Lovers/index.htm