the author of "dating rules" gives it to you straight.

Perfect question, perfect timing. Women at your age need to know EXACTLY what is expected. You've come to the right place. When he's not ready and you kind of aren't ready, friends is all it should be. Activities, sporting events, movies, casual spontaneous events. Keep the emotions in check and enjoy the moment, no more no less. Solid relationships develop over time, don't rush ANYTHING!!! Don't rush his responses to you, don't rush your feelings for him...treat him like a buddy. Keep your sense of humor and pleasant attitude about the situation and everything will run its due course. You'll learn plenty over these next few months and acquire the needed expertise in handling these types of guy/girl "give & takes". I wish every girl were as proactive as you... Tweet