confused about vaccines

I am a mother of a 23 month old and a 2 month. my first daughter, i had a scary incident with the hospital administered the hep b vaccine after i had said i did not want it.My daughter had a fever of 103 and screaming pells for her first 3 days following the shot! I myself had epstein barr in college because of the heb b shot, which was why i was against it for my daughter. As for the other vaccines, I split them up, over time, I delayed the MMR until 18 months, and never gave her the varicella/chicken pox. Now I wish maye i hadn't given her anything at all, she has no symptoms, she is a "normal child", but i have been reading so much on vaccines lately that I feel like I took a gamble with her. Now my second child has not recieved any vaccines yet. I am on the tightrope trying to figure out a plan for her. I recently read an incredible article that basically said, neurological problems, from mild to severe such as autism, are developed, because of reactions to the body's immune system being overwhelmed with the vaccine, and esentially is unable to handle it and has reactions often starting with fevers, diarrhea and vomiting leading to more seere over days, weeks and months. in lay words: The body tries to get the "vaccine" out of its system, but fails to and is wounded in the fight, sometimes permenantly.
So since that article i feel like should i take the gamble or not?
any advise?
eva