Re: Shelly Can you Do Me One When You Have Time...Please!

I was born on the 6/11/1964 at 7.45 and my son was born on 23/4/2001

That's November 6th, right? :) let me know if it's not!

11-6-1964 = 2-6-2 = 28/1 (lots of 28/1 people have had readings, feel free to check those posts. it won't be entirely accurate for you but somewhat.)
challenges: 4/4/0/0
personal year: 4 as of LAST b-day, 5 as of NEXT b-day. so last/this year was a challenging year for you. This year is all about process. Next year will be more about fun, short trips, gossip, indulgences. Next year is also better for playing the lottery.

Okay, these numbers say you're very much a family woman, but more independent and original than most moms in a lot of ways. You tend to be the "go-to Mom" for carpools, school functions, the like. :) Born on the 6th day, you naturally help friends and family out, appreciate beauty in all things, appreciate fine decorations and color schemes, and like everything to be both useful AND beautiful. Do you have a cabinet showing off fine plates and such? :)

Balanced by the 2 on either side, this makes you even more of a people person. You need periods of caving in order to get in touch with how you really feel because you tend to pick up on what other people are feeling and can get rather lost in these impressions. But then your 28/1 qualities come into play and that keeps you from being a total people-pleaser or doormat - you're able to state your needs and tell people to back off when they get too pushy. ;) Just don't wait until they get on your last nerve, as that means you will blow up and say things you regret.

Challenged by the 4, you are either way organized or a total slob. And either of these can happen in different segments of your life. For instance, you may be very careful in the kitchen but sloppy with the checkbook, or vice versa. You may tend to be very impatient and want things to happen as soon as they think of them, but of course there's an entire process to go thru first, and the fact that the results rarely come out exactly the way you planned can make you lose sight of the wonderful fact of achievement as you moan about what might have been rather than celebrate what IS. But you're great with your hands, and should work with your hands somehow in a way that is fulfilling for you, whether you're baking, cooking, sewing, decorating, pottery, your options are endless.

23/4/2001

4 - 23 - 2001 = 4/5/3 = 12/3
challenges: 1/2/1/1
personal year: 5

Okay, this kid is going to have tons of talent, so be sure to expose him to all kinds of things - musical instruments, sports, hobbies, crafts, let him just try things for awhile, and don't expect him to keep at any single thing for very long. He'll be a "Jack of all trades" and that's okay, it will all pay off someday. he should be pretty verbal and good at learning other languages.

He'll be super-sensitive and needs a very particular kind of discipline, a kind of "non-discipline." Treat him like an adult, because he will see himself as an adult and will be puzzled if you talk down to him. He won't automatically respect authority figures, they will just be people to him, and they'll only deserve respect if they treat HIM with respect. Offer him choices. Rather than say things like "come eat your dinner now," say something like, "Where would you like to sit?" Always explain things very clearly - the why's and wherefore's, not just the "do this because I said so" except in the case of emergency (see below).

he'll want to use his mental faculties right away, so talking like he's an automaton will be a total turn-off. It would also be a good idea to let him help choose what his punishment should be when he totally disrespects you. Chances are, just the fact that he disappoints you will punish him enough.

He'll be very impetuous, free-thinking, experimental, and will tend to rush headlong into dangerous situations without thinking about it. He'll love learning new things as long as learning is fun, hands-on, and seems to apply to real life somehow. He'll learn quickly and will need to learn how to read quietly while the other children who are slower to catch on take up the teacher's time, or else he may be totally disruptive.

You may want to come up with a code word for special situations when you want him to obey you without question. A friend of mine did this with his son and it saved his life. The code was simply the use of his full name, first, middle and last. Whenever his father said "John Jacob Smith" the son had to do exactly what he was told. Once they were at a beach, on a breakwater type pier, and a huge wave came up and was going to pass over onto where the people was standing down below near the ocean. The father was farther back on the pier where it was safe, but the son was right there next to the ocean with a huge wave coming at him, all unaware. but when his father said "john jacob smith come to me now as fast as you can" he came instantly and the wave didn't wash him away.

Hope that makes sense! :) Tweet