The internet is a vast pool of ideas for me. I too assume you are one of the few female posters, here. But, why shouldn't I accept you for what you claim to be. I read your posts and enjoy your wit and thoughts - why complicate things? One of my sons somehow starting with an Aussie (person?) Over time photos etc. were exchanged - He sent her a diamond engagement ring. Go figure? Don't think her ever met the (person?) Not certain what happened to the ring. And he has 2 degrees!