i know i shud stay out of it but i dont knoew if i can,i cant get away fromn this man as he works with me,hes always coming nto me being really affectionate telling me that he is in love with me and that he willwait around 4ever to be with me,i get a headache thinking about him.hes asked me out on dates and ive refused as i knowe this would make the situation worse,ive even tried putting my feelings on hold by telling him to back of but he still insisits his relationship with his girl is not good and that i am the one he really wants to be with,its so good when were together,its also creating alot of problems at worek as people think he is having an affair with me as we apper to be so close,when i dont see him i think of him all the time rather than my own boyfrend,i think this man is trying to manipulate me,its not that easy to 4get about this guy he is very charming and always saying nice things and always seems to be around me.