"I have had a lot of guys to tell me and their friends that i am hot and have a awesome body and i am sexy" and then you say
"how can i use what i got to attract men i never really thought about".
Well you must have used your equipment (sorry but I am laughing)"right" then, since "a lot of guys" already have noticed your "it" in the way you want.
Or do you expect/want them to start masturb... every time you enter a room?
What is so attractive about men you "never really thought about".?