I feel the same way. I have to feel as though I'm dying in order to go to a doctor. I don't trust them at all.
As for my dog, I don't like her to get shots, either, but as you said, it's necessary for kenneling. I read a book called "The Last Chance Dog." It's by a vet who decided to practice homeopathic veterinary medicine rather than going the conventional route. She mentions how awful vaccines can be for dogs. It's really scary. I need to find a homeopathic or alternative vet in my area. I want what's best for my dog.