Re: Is she Lying???

You've got a 10 from me Beetlejuice. Why?? For the depth of emotional awareness and understanding in your answer :).

I know all of us are going to have different experiences in our backgrounds that shape our responses, but take it from one who stuck it out through this kind of initial beginning, and once the other party saw the light, everything turned into solid gold, now both of us are very happy that I persisted..

So stick around OK? I want to hear more from you, Beetlejuice.

Have a great day.

To the original poster:
If it were me, I'd talk to her a little more.

Find out if she was just having a uniquely bad day, or really prefers to continue having folks in her life who treat her like sh*t.

OTOH maybe there's just a "wild" element she likes (And which you may have), but maybe she's only seen it in that other kind of person. Ask her what her favorite image of an ideal relationship would be like, and include the sexual side of things in that discussion (since you've already gone the distance, so to speak..).

Hmm, just one more thing. If substance abuse is an issue with her, then IMO tell the girl goodbye and let her go.

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