Re: Love but no lust

Where do I begin? First and foremost, get rid of the exploration dudes making hay with your woman. Not healthy at all. Marriage is a godly committment that obviously wasn't listened to when the pastor was speaking. Marriage in your 40's isn't about sex. Marriage 101, chapter 3 states it clearly. If she doesn't want sex with you, welcome to the club! Lust disappears with the years and never returns no matter what the Maxims and Cosmopolitans of the world tout. Relationships go into mature phases of life. I wish my wife would screw like when we were dating, but she doesn't. Do I love her any less. No. Do I wish I was the balance beam and she the gymnast? Of course. Quit searching for lust. Quit being so clingy while you're at it. Develop other interests (other than threesomes). If she is unwilling to lay off other guy's meat, then you need a marriage counselor before the lawyer's office. Tweet