Listen, if a guy in the dating process doesn't do something that is really important to you, you're with the wrong guy. Simple as that. This is important, he won't or can't play along...why carry on with this? Dating is when you evaluate the mate. Does he do the provide the factors I need to be happy? Answer: No. Women are awful at evaluating "talent", recognizing negatives, and then moving on. It's a necessary fact of life that far too many gals put up with. Just as I say to business managers: There will be, from time to time, employees you will positively need to fire in order to maintain a high level of performance in the office. I naturally compliment my cutie daily...and it naturally flows out. She loves it! She smiles each and every time I say it. Women need to hear it. A lot of guys out there never learned that lesson.