Re: girlfriend problems...work

Red sirens flashing...

She's deceiving you... you're deceiving her (reading her texts). No trust.

The stock response to most I give is, you know, in your gut, more than any of us could ever surmise from your story.

When there's a little voice saying "you're being lied to", you MUST listen to it, even if your heart is screaming "no, i'm in love, i',m in love, don't take her away from me."

then again, her text response sounds like it was referring to getting action from you... in which case she's probably spent all her time with this guy talking about you. Which is good. What isn't good is if you don't trust her. If you don't trust her, dump her. Women (and men too for that matter) would rather be rejected once than kept on a leash of jealousy forevermore.

Jealousy is unbecoming of a real man.

Get over it and trust her, or dump her. Tweet