I agree

Hello,

I agree with you here. I have been in counselling, not for sexual abuse, but because I came from an alcoholic home, and asked my counsellor about sexual abuse, cause my health has been ill, and thought that possibly I had been sexually abused.

He said, he did not want to go there. If in our sessions, I made some comment that he felt related to abuse he would go there, but he said, why open a can of worms, when you dont even know if you were. I was glad he did.

I remember my Grandmother, she use to hug me at night and touch my breasts, when I was just develping... she would say how nice they were getting... I had remembered this... years later, but did not try to seek therapy as I thought, just let it go, and if you feel it needs to be dealt with, then go and get counselling.
I have deeply thought about it, and I thought, I can let it go, as... it does not bother me now. I let it go. I told this to my mother, she thought it was odd, but said my nana was from the old country... and that was it. I dont care wether she was from the old country, and quite frankly would consult her about this that she had violated my boundaries, but she has passed away.
I would not tolerate this behaviour if it happened to my child, but at that time... when it did happen to me, I did not tell anyone. I was just repulsed.

I am going to a Shaman healer, and will ask her about this, and she can see about this. At this time, I am doing different areas of healing, and it has not really come up. I am aware of it, and
am reading some good books.

:)