Re: Can't go for a round 2 anymore. Help!
dont think about the sex, just let yourself go and kiss, hug, caress, lick, touch her, and then slowly undress her, kiss all over her body and make your way to her Pussy. The tease her for a while but enjoy yourself, fondle her breastes too, finally start to kiss, lick and suck her down there but do it slowly and passionately....then the time comes for you to penetrate her and start intercourse, do it slowly at first so you get used to the feeling of being inside her, she will love it and already be totally turned on. Go slow and if you feel about to cum, then stop all movement or pull out and start fingering her and playing around some more. hold your dick in your nad and play with it to desensitize it a little. have more oral sex, let her suck on you...finger her. Then when you are ready go at it again, keep doing her increasing or decreasing the intensity as you can so you dont cum. Pull out again to calm down as many times ad you need to. I just tell her, oh baby it feels so good inside you, slow down ok...I dont wanna cum... just be vocal but sexual at the same time, its fun. If you cant get it up for a second round it could be one, you are both putting too much pressure on it so you get nervous, or you have a low testosterone level for some reason. Anyways, dont worry about it so much. Just perform as you can and communicate, have fun... I'm tellin you I dont have a problem with it and I have never had a complaint about it if I did I would appreciate it because I wanna know how she feels.. Dont take it too seriously. Talk about it together and be comfortable. If you are nervous during sex you need to relax and enjoy it more, that could be the problem.
Goood luck