Limp

HI;

I posted a message a few days ago "worries I have."

I did see the girl I mentioned that friday night, and ended up fingering her! I basically just rubbed the area, and I'm sure she liked it. To be honest though, it was hard to distinguish her lips, clit, and vagina, the lips (inner labia) seemed to be more INTERNAL and not "sticking out," like some girls.. I did get inside something (obviously vagina), and it was the only possible place my finger could go. I've been worrying a lot about the fact that I may not find it. Luckily she was very wet.... Any advice/thoughts about this?

Anyway, she proceeded to move her hand to my crotch, and felt my "area." I was a bit nervous, and tired, and was really limp. She rubbed it for a bit, and then moved her hand away, again. I suppose I may have got hard if she had continued to rub, but she didn't, and I thought she may have been turned off by the fact I was limp? I don't know why that happened, but it sucked!

Any help would be great once again. Thanks