hey i think you are just fine.

I have never been with a larger man that was at all what I felt to be a good lover.

and i think a great many women would agree with me.

I think you should quit worrying about size and concentrate on love.
every inch of human skin is of itself a source of pleasure.
don't ever forget that.

the gentleness of human touch and heartfelt caring,
goes a lot farther in arousing a woman than a really big guy.

if you become overly concerned about your size , then the woman will sense your tension, and probably make her less spontaneous
or as we are apt to do, start wondering what is wrong with us!!

because we are just as basically vulnerable as you are to how men see us as sexual identities..
if there were no truth in what i am saying, then tons of women with breast augmentations would not be the norm as we see it in todays society.
the man who rocked my world the most, was probably smaller than you..and yet I could never imagine any one better than he.
it's all about touch and sincere caring...
and learning how to relay that to your partner sincerely.

if a woman has been with a larger man , she might feel looser to you , and she might have a problem with it for awhile.

you could make this part of your lovemaking, to have her practice kegel exercises with you to help retighten her vaginal walls and pelvic floor so that eventually she will be back to a normal size and better able to enjoy fully the difference in size.
also learn about stimulating her clitoris the way that SHE wants it/ not the way YOU think she wants it, or how other girls have wanted it..
every person is different.
take time to explore each other and get to know each other intimitely. otherwise you will just have a sexual act without the
connective bond of emotional lovemaking.