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Help has arrived and BOY ARE YOU ONE LUCKY LADY! Climaxes are my specialty, if I do say so myself. Now, before we begin...don't take anything I say as a personal insult...WE ALL CAN'T BE GOOD AT EVERYTHING! In this case, you and the hubby aren't well-versed in bedroom etiquette, well, at least not yet. One of the downsides to never having sex before marriage is that you enter the marital bed as rookies. Rookies don't know anything. And thus, having a learning curve that rivals the Harvard entrance exam! When both partners haven't had it that makes it doubly difficult because one cannot teach the other. Orgasms just don't happen...they are develped by technique. Don't feel alone, lots of married and singles can't find that elusive pleasure. If you were never taught, how on earth would you ever learn? That's the pros of a little action before marriage...I know you're pure and virginal and all that (trust me on this, I'm a Christian guy who talks bluntly as anyone you'll ever meet about this topic). I realize I'm a hypocrite when I advocate some hands-on before marriage but it's only because I benefited greatly, my wife receives the benefit, and I hear tons of complaints from wives and girlfriends about their men searching for the clitoris! Welcome to the real world...sex is important. When you treat sex as a marital option and not a primary, you get "3 minute ejaculations" and "what's an orgasm feel like". Hey, remember our little agreement about not taking it too personally? Ok, now. Back to the lesson plan. Your husband needs to last longer. No doubt about it. The longer he penetrates your vagina (and hopefully rubs your clit at the same time) the better sex you will feel. If he explodes after a referee's timeout and you're still spread eagle waiting for more...that's not going to sit well, now, is it? He needs to be able to "hold off" ejaculating for at least 10-15 minutes MINIMUM. Since he's a rookie, he'll have to practice the art of restraint inside your loins. It's a talent. You just don't wake up and all of a sudden be able to bump and grind your honey into another world and blow when you're good and ready. Next, you and he need to find your clitoris and study it well. It's there, believe me. Many women go to the moon with vaginal penetration, BUT ALMOST ALL GO WITH CLITORAL STIMULATION. That's the treasure. That's the jackpot spot. Your other questions will all fall into place once both of you examine and experiment with your mother of pearl. The positions and the playing with yourself in the tub...all in due time. You've got some catching up to do so get on with the homework and I'll expect a full report Monday after a weekend of exploration. Class dismissed. Tweet