Anal Beads

Hello everyone; Need advice again PLEASE: When my man and I first started our sexual journey together, we tried anal sex (which was the first time for both of us). I remember being alittle drunk and I liked it but then the second and third time I tried it, it hurt like hell and we havent done it since.

Lately, during sex, I just feel this urge like I want it "there" too. And since he wants to try it again, I came up with an idea.

I want to try anal beads because a long time ago some guy told me that was really sexy and a girl told me they felt good. I want to know HOW you use them??, DOES it hurt??, and WILL my man really get off on seeing me do that (he does he do it to me???)?? I've never used them before and I wanted to surprise him with them so I cant ask him these questions. PLEASE HELP!!! Thanks :-)