Good for husband Mental! I know the feeling, better than the heavy limbs, thirst, heavy eyes, sleepiness feeling when I would ejaculate 3-4 times a night. I sacrifice a few seconds of pleasure to enjoy better health, dreams. Its funny how I used to think there wa a point of no return for me, now I can control so easily, my wife rarely noticed because she was so engrossed in round #5. Unfortunately I am not married anymore so am out of practice. I know he considers your feelings thats what helped me most in the bedroom.