A GUY'S MIND IS A FUNNY THING.

It's very predictable what guys think about women's bodies, but there is another side to us that you don't hear about. We all like our honies to be red-hot, that's automatic, the better they look physically the better we feel being around them. I loved it when I could bounce a quarter off my sweetie's stomach when she was teaching aerobics (who wouldn't!!?). But, but, but...MOST GUYS that I've ever spoken with on this topic will confess that if the gal has tremendous personality and makes them feel wonderful to be with, a little overweight is OK and hardly noticeable. It's true. Most women in America are overweight some, that's a solid fact of life. Most of those women have guys. This theory tends to pan out. For me, I am very visual and have been all my adult life, BUT, I can literally forget a girl is slightly overweight because of her sensational way, her charisma, to a point that I don't even notice any more. It fails to be an issue. That's something all women out there need to realize. That's power that you can control today! Your "way", your upbeat (not nutty) personality means plenty to MOST GUYS. Not all, but most. I'm not advocating lowering expectations on exercise or diet in any way, shape, or form...I'm just voicing how important that women out there try to be personally appealing.