Getting in the Mood

Dear 1845,

I use massage to get my wife in the mood. Do you have any massage instruction video tapes? I have enjoyed the Esalen tape.

www.esalenmassage.org, Esalen Massage Tapes

If your husband is aggressive, give him an avenue to be aggressive and get you stimulated both, Massage. I do not have any Rolfing Tapes but I have a book.

I use erotic videos during foreplay and love making to increase my satiation. Some women report a heightened interest from some videos.

Mood and timing are important. My wife is sometimes most receptive in the 10 minutes before she falls asleep. Is there a time that is good for you? Can you work that time into your husband’s behavior patterns? I prefer the morning, as an energizer for going to work. Is there any routine you can work on for mornings?

If I have been working on something, and I see that my wife is in the mood, I will start pressing my tongue against one of her more or less private parts, and find myself getting interested in foreplay. Do you have any toys to play with when you expect your husband to be in the mood? I have particular music that is helpful to me. My wife can have the nightly news broadcast as background.

It is nice that you are taking an initiative on the situation. Your husband is luckier than many.

Blessings

Logger