Ask yourself this Question, How do I want God to Judge Me? Do I want him to be Critical of all my Flaws? Do I want him to Judge me the way I Judge others? Do I want Him to show me mercy like I show others mercy?
Judge not that ye be not judged. For with the judgement ye judge others, so shall ye be judged.
As I better learn to understood this gospel principle. It became easier for me to be more thoughtful instead of critical of others.
Do you want God to Love you? Show love to others. A Prophet of God said, When ye are in the service of your fellow man, ye are in the service of your God.
Just understand that with the judgement you give others, God will judge you with that same judgement.