joy is the by-product of recognizing how wonderful... how perfect... how exhilarating life really is... joy for me is not in the getting... but in the letting go...
when i allow others the right to be wrong i find freedom... therefore... joy... for me... only occurs when i find those moments of freedom from the bondage of "self"...
mr. rogers was right... "it is a wonderful day in the neighborhood boys and girls"... it really is...
here is something to think about...
"Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny."
--Frank Outlaw