To be very honest with you, I plan to have a sexless relationship unless I met someone with Herpes, too. Being a female, what is more insulting than there is tingling or mild outbreak even in the breast and nipple due to Herpes infected from the mouth? So I don't hope much from marrying a guy with no Herpes. My boyfriend had naively told me that even if he can't touch me in genital, he can kiss my breast. If I say things loudly over the telephone, he will say if he is next to me, he will hold my hands and said everything is ok. Inside my heart, I know I am not so easy to be touched for there are days that my hands and feet are swollen and itch.
Being with me for one and a half year, now he does'nt talk with me about Herpes anymore. He does'nt want to know the details and does'nt not even pray for me----he is tired.