Here's something that makes men instantly seem MUCH more attractive... manners! And in specifics - opening the car door for a lady, letting her get in, shutting the door for her, and then walking around to her seat. Even if she's driving! At least, that does it for me! I know some women wouldn't like it but I really love it. And not too many guys do that. I don't mean dating, either. Just a friend or even someone you barely know.