Need to find a Dentist in central NJ thank you

hello every one , i was at my dentist this week, she is trying to tell me that silver filling is very safe, once it bounded as alloy . and it does`nt release any mercurey after it form as alloy.
i told her that i haven`t feel too good after all these 7 filling.beside the pain lower mu jaw like a lymph swollen.
so please if you have a like or doctor name in nj let me know , because i think she is not qualfied to do removal,with all these precaution method,